Tag: how to find your passion

  • Ignite Your Life with Passion

    Ignite Your Life with Passion

    Leanne Blaney is a master coach. She helps people create more fun, passion, and meaning while living a balanced life. Leanne’s training runs deep; she’s a certified Jack Canfield Success Principles trainer, DISC consultant, Coaching Guild Associate Member, and Coaching Institute Meta Dynamics /Advanced Practitioner.

    So, when my friend Mary Wu suggested that we connect, I was thrilled. I love connecting with people who live with passion and it was easy to see that Leanne lived a “Bucket List” life. In fact, she’s a certified Bucket List coach!

    Leanne and I jumped on her podcast and talked about passion in depth.

    You can catch the episode via audio below or the transcript here:

    Ignite Your Life with Passion

    Here’s a bit from the podcast:

    [09:05] Leanne: That is awesome, I love it. I love how you have found that way of doing something using someone as a role model too because it is something that I’m very aware of through my Bucket Listing workshops so people are just living groundhog day aren’t they just over and over and they’ve lost their passion for life, so I am loving your story thank you so
    much for sharing.
    [09:28] Karen: It is so true, isn’t it? we get to midlife and we think you know oh my gosh this is it and it is so not true and when you find a role model it just opens up the world to you. But I also tell people, if you can’t find a role model you might have to be the role model that leads the way.
    [09:52] Leanne: Exactly and it’s great to have role models out there doing things and people of all abilities doing things that they love because we don’t want to just say oh something happened to me and then hide ourselves away it is so important to keep living because we only have this short lifetime so we need to have something that we are passionate about,
    don’t we?

  • Barefooting 50 States: Louisiana

    Barefooting 50 States: Louisiana

     

    “Have you done Louisiana yet?”

    Mark Varnes, a fellow barefooter, left a comment on one of my Facebook posts. He invited me to ski with him in Louisiana as part of my Barefooting 50 States for my 50’s quest.

    The next thing I knew, I had an assignment to speak in New Orleans, just 45 minutes from Mark’s secret spot on the Pearl River.

    Serendipity.

    Or synchronicity, as Wayne Dyer would say.

    I hopped on a Southwest flight, grabbed a rental car, and took off for the river. I met up with Mark and two of his buddies, Brad Ripp and William “Doc” Kutun. All of us were over the age of 50–and we all shared a crazy passionate love for barefooting. Like me, Brad got back on the water just recently–after a 25 year absence. We spent the afternoon barefooting up and down the Pearl River, one of the most calm, tranquil spots I’ve ever barefooted in. Whenever there was a tiny ripple on the water, Mark drove further down the river until we found glass again. As a result, my feet were burning on my first run! On my second run, I decided to try a backward deep start behind the boat–something that had eluded me during the last several barefooting trips. The start was smooth and I found myself up and about–but I couldn’t find my way around the wake. I let go as I was afraid I was going to fall–but I was so, so, so happy to have accomplished the backward longline start once again!

    Each of the guys took turns footin’–and I was impressed with their skills! I still have a ways to go to catch up!

    On the way back to the dock, one of the guys pointed out an alligator lazing between the trees. Fortunately, the boat was going so fast that I missed it. I was really glad I was done footin’ after they found a gator! Check out the amusing alligator sign in the video that Mark put together:

     

    Want some help putting together a Passion Quest of your own? Check out Karen’s book: Unwrapping Your Passion.

     

  • How to Make This Year Your Most Passionate Year Ever

    How to Make This Year Your Most Passionate Year Ever

    Here we are, halfway through 2018. Here’s a question to ask yourself: Are you living with passion?

    Because you see, passion doesn’t have to be complicated. You don’t have to search high and low for passion, you simply have to unwrap it. It’s a gift within you.

    When I first began studying this thing we call “passion,” I interviewed over 200 people on the topic. I received many different definitions, but all of them with a pretty common theme. My friend Jackie St. Onge gave me what I think is the best definition of passion:

    “Passion is your joy. It is the essence of who you are.

    You have to unwrap it to find it.

    The mind, body, and soul become one when you find it.

    Passion comes naturally to a person. It’s like running water; turn on the tap and it flows. “

    The first step to living a passionate life is making a decision–and you have two choices: 1. Letting life happen to you. Or 2. Making life happen. When you make the decision to stop sleepwalking through life and embrace a new way of living, that’s when life starts opening up to you.

    Here are ten things you can do to make the rest of the year your best year ever:

    1. Change your mornings. Grab a copy of The Miracle Morning by Hal Elrod–this book has the best advice ever on how you can begin each day with passion.
    2. Become clear on how you want to live. Grab a spiral notebook and write down 100 things to be, do, or have in your lifetime. Every day, pick from this list and take steps to get you  closer or to actually live it.
    3. Watch how you react to your thoughts. You may not be able to control what pops up in your head, but you can certainly control your reaction to your thoughts.
    4. READ. READ. READ. What you put in your mind determines how you will live your life. Start with my book, Unwrapping Your Passion. (And there’s a book list in the back of the book for more reading.) You’re getting the wisdom of many passionate people in this book.
    5. Prioritize your time. Recognize what’s truly important in your life and let the other stuff slide.
    6. Let go of the relationships that are dragging you down, down, down. Hang out with those who are living with passion. Learn from them.
    7. Find a mentor, coach, accountability partner who can guide you down a passionate path.
    8. Have a vision that’s bigger than what you’re currently experiencing and believe in it. You must believe it to see it, as Wayne Dyer used to say.
    9. Try something new. Always. This is the action that leads to new eruptions of passion in your life.
    10. Invite joy, bliss, and passion in your life every single day. They will show up.  Then end your day with gratitude and begin again.

    Ditch the mediocrity and start living with passion. If you need some help getting clear or how to take the steps to a passionate life, I have a few spots open in my Passion Mentor program. Email me at karen @ agelesspassions with “A Passionate Life” in the subject line. Start now, and you’ll end the year having the most passionate life ever!

     

    Ladies, this weekend is for you: Ladies Night Inn, A Retreat for Your Soul

     

     

  • The Passion Book

    The Passion Book

    UYP Dan Miller Quote

    Psssst…

    I’ve got a new book out.

    You’ll like this one. It’s about…passion.

    How to unwrap your passion and create the life you truly want.

    I spent the last several years asking a lot of people about passion. I took all the lessons I learned and put them in this book. It was a lot of FUN to write this one, because when you interview passionate people about the stuff that lights them up, drives them forward, or allows them to savor life–you get all kinds of really cool answers and life lessons.

    UYP Dara Torres Quote

    The book is available on Amazon, Barnes and Noble, Books a Million or your favorite local bookstore (just ask, they can order if they haven’t already!).

    Your passion matters.

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    Here’s what my own editor, Tyler Tichelaar says about Unwrapping Your Passion:

    In the Foreword to Karen Putz’s new book Unwrapping Your Passion, bestselling authors and self-help gurus Debra Poneman and Janet Attwood, state about Karen, “How amazing is that woman?” I have to agree. You’d be hard-pressed to find anyone as passionate as Karen about her own passions as well as helping others discover theirs. In addition, she’s deaf but doesn’t let that get in her way, and one of her biggest passions is barefoot water skiing, a sport she took back up at age forty-four. Now she water skis across the United States year-round, pursuing her passion.

    “What’s your passion?” is the question Karen Putz challenges her readers with. She believes we all have a passion, and once we find it, we can enjoy our lives like never before. Sometimes we just need a little inspiration and help in discovering it, which is why Karen has written this book. In fact, she needed a little of that herself when she got back into barefoot water skiing. At forty-four, she thought she was too old until she met a sixty-six-year-old woman who had started barefoot water skiing at age fifty-three. Both women are proof it is never too late to find your passion.

    In writing this book, Karen set out to determine how people find their passions and what keeps them passionate. She interviewed 200 people, and she tells many of their stories, revealing their secrets and inspirations. Then she challenges readers with exercises to help discover the passion within themselves.

    The various chapters in Unwrapping Your Passion look at different ways to find your passion and also ways to overcome obstacles that present themselves in your pursuit of it. One way Karen strongly advocates for finding your passion lies in the power of meditation. One of the people she mentions in the book, Patti, taught her, “passion doesn’t just have to be the fire in the belly—passion is also the quiet nudging of the heart. We just have to listen.” Karen knows that from experience. It was listening to a quiet voice that caused her to write her first book. She had never written a book before, which was challenge enough, but that quiet voice was telling her to go introduce herself to a water skier she had never met and write his story. It seemed like an impossible situation, but she did it, and now she has several books under her belt.

    One obstacle to pursuing one’s passion is fear. Too often we repress what we want because of our fears, whether it’s fear of success, fear people will reject us if we pursue our passion, or fear of physical harm. Karen, herself, dealt with the fear of physical harm. She wanted to barefoot water ski, but she was also deathly afraid of alligators. She even had nightmares about them, which made her not want to venture out on lakes. But she knew if she was going to pursue her passion, she would have to overcome that fear. With the help of a qualified friend, she got up close and personal with an alligator, actually touching it, discovering what beautiful and magnificent creatures alligators are, and then her fear dissolved.

    I can’t discuss all the topics Karen covers in this book but others include how to avoid toxic people who will try to suck your passion out of you, and how to deal with stress that will debilitate you from pursuing your passion. She also quotes and interviews many authors who know a lot about passion. One of them, Terry Hadaway, author of Live Your Why, offers great advice when he says that we often have the question all wrong. Instead of asking “What do you want to be?” we should be asking, “How do you want to live?”

    Nor is it always easy to be a cheerleader for others when they want to follow their passions. Karen discovered that hard truth when her daughter wanted to drop out of college to pursue an acting career. Karen was terrified for her daughter and tried to convince her to stay in school until her daughter called her on the situation, saying, “How can you tell others to follow their passions when you can’t even let your own daughter do that?” Karen knew her daughter was right. Today, her daughter is on Broadway.

    Finally, if you think it’s too late or you don’t think you’re good enough to succeed at what you’re passionate about, take this bit of advice from Karen, “There’s a learning curve when you are doing something that’s totally new to you. Every expert on earth has started out as a beginner. I often tell people, ‘Don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s ten-year process.’” I love this advice and would add that in ten years, if you don’t pursue your passion, you won’t get anywhere you want to be, so begin, no matter how small or hard that beginning is.

    As someone who has spent his life pursuing his passion for writing, even making decisions some people told him were mistakes, and knowing that it has all turned out well regardless, I guarantee that Unwrapping Your Passion will leave you feeling reinvigorated and passionate about the endless possibilities that lie before you. Karen will help you find your passion, and once you do, the sky’s the limit.

     

    Grab your copy at your local bookstore or online: Unwrapping Your Passion