Author: Karen Putz

  • What is Gone May Bloom Again

    When my parents built their new house on Christie Lake 20 years ago, my mom discovered a peony plant coming up out of the blue between two newly planted bushes. To her surprise, she discovered it was the same peonies that she transplanted long ago to a different spot in the yard and the bush had died. The yard had been completely torn up and reshaped when the house was built.

    Twenty years later, the peonies continue to bloom each spring. It’s a reminder of hope– because just when you give up, or think something is over and done with, you can thrive and blossom yet again.

    IMG_8084

     

  • Unwrapping Your Passion, The Iron Jen Radio Show

    Early this morning, I shared one of my favorite topics, “Unwrapping Your Passion” on the Iron Jen Radio Show with Jen McDonough. The show was captioned live, enabling deaf and hard of hearing people to join in.

    Jen and I crossed paths over on Dan Miller’s site, 48days.net.   I was inspired and fascinated by her journey to becoming an Ironman athlete and her family’s journey to pay off over $200,000 of debt. In June, Jen and her family will unleash their “debt free” scream on the Dave Ramsey Show. I’m pretty sure the scream will be so loud that deaf people will be able to hear it!

    In addition to the radio show, I had the honor of guest posting as well:

    Unwrapping Your Passion

    The 30-minute replay of the show can be heard here:

    Unwrapping Your Passion on the Iron Jen Show

    Transcript and captions provided by SpeechtText Access:

     Unwrapping Your Passion Transcript

  • A Test of Patience

    Wednesday night, before heading to bed, I checked my flight schedule for Florida. “The plane leaves at 7:25,” I told Joe. I sank into bed early knowing that I’d have to get up at four a.m. to get ready. A nagging feeling crept up on me. I wanted to go downstairs and check the schedule one more time, but I was exhausted after two days on the road and three presentations.

    On the way to the airport, the nagging feeling returned. I took a look at the schedule and right then and there, my heart sank.

    6:10.

    I was looking at the landing time previously, not the flight time. I was going to miss my plane.

    “We’ll, there’s nothing I can do about it,” I told my husband. “I’ll just have to take the next available flight.”

    I was scheduled to speak at the Florida School for the Deaf at 2:15, but I wasn’t sure if I would make it there on time. The school informed me that the latest I could arrive would be 3 p.m.

    The Southwest agent gave me standby on a flight leaving in 20 minutes, but I had yet to get through security. I made it just before they were closing the doors. I picked up a connecting flight after arriving in Fort Lauderdale. I figured I would make it to the school

    As soon as I arrived at the rental car place, I was congratulating myself. There was no line! I figured I would arrive at 2:30. As I reached into my purse, my heart sank; my wallet was nowhere to be found.

    My cell phone rang and a kind traveler nearby answered it for me. It was Southwest– they were on their way with my wallet. I’m a frequent flyer with Southwest and they simply rock!

    There was a line when I arrived back at the rental car counter and by the time I hit the expressway, I knew I was cutting it close. I threw up a prayer and stepped on the gas.

    In the passing lane, I encountered one slow car after another. I couldn’t believe it. Almost no one moved over. I could feel the frustration building up inside of me.

    A digital sign indicted a stalled car ahead. Sure enough, the traffic crawled to a stop.

    I wanted to scream.

    Suddenly, I remembered one of Keith St. Onge’s lessons from his book, Gliding Soles. Whenever he encountered red traffic lights when in a hurry, he considered them as a test of patience.

    “Ok, God, bring it on, I can do this. No matter what happens on the road, I’m staying positive.”

    As soon as I got off the highway, I encountered more slow drivers and… You guessed it… red lights. Over and over, I stayed positive and envisioned myself arriving in time to speak to the middle school kids.

    The guard at the gate took a long time to process my information and print out a pass. Another test of patience, but I was determined to pass it with flying colors and a smile on my face. I walked into the building at…

    2:59.

    20130523-214920.jpg

    20130525-222410.jpg

    20130525-222505.jpg

  • Meeting Joel Osteen

    20130514-152812.jpg

    One week ago, I was sitting at the table with my brother and sister-in-law talking about their upcoming move to Houston. Just weeks before, they were scheduled to move when Dennis had a heart attack and landed in the hospital. He ended up having bypass surgery and was in the middle of a painful recovery. Their son was going to drive with them but he had the possibility of starting work at a construction site. They were trying to figure out Plan B.

    Suddenly, I was overcome by a strong urge to go with them. At first, I tried to ignore the urge. I was in the middle of finishing a book and preparing three presentations for the end of the month. The gnawing feeling inside would not stop. I had long ago learned to listen within. God often guided me in powerful ways with those internal nudges.

    “I’ll drive you guys down,” I said. Instantly, I wondered how I was going to justify it with Joe and the kids– because I had been traveling so much with the launch of my speaking and SendOutCards business this year. Thankfully, they were all supportive.

    Less than a year ago, I made a commitment in my journey back to God and found a church that I feel very much at home in. I felt as if I had lost my way over the years and I needed to find my way back to a faith which I actually knew little about.

    One day, Joe brought home a box of books from my mother-in-law. In the box was Joel Osteen’s book, “Live Your Best Life Now.” I had just started watching Joel on Sundays and I loved his uplifting messages and lessons. More than once, the same thought popped into my mind: I would love to attend a service at Lakewood and meet Joel. I wrote it down in my Dream book.

    20130514-152719.jpg

    That’s exactly where I found myself on Sunday morning/Mother’s Day. I arrived at Lakewood church early and walked around. A man in a business suit approached me. “Would you like to meet Joel?” I could hardly believe my lip reading eyes! He walked me over to a roped off section. “Joel will be coming off the elevator here,” he said. “No pictures, though. Do you have something you want signed?”

    Instantly, I wished I had bought a book at the bookstore. Then I remembered my Dream journal– I would have him sign that!

    Just seconds before it was my turn, my hearing aid gave the warning sound of a battery about to die. (Ok, God, your sense of timing is funny!I have never changed a battery so fast in my life.) Not that it would have mattered much– but I wanted to make sure I could moderate my voice.

    20130514-151827.jpg

    It was an amazing moment to shake the hand of a man who inspires many and makes a difference with his gifts. I enjoyed the lessons he shared at the service. The interpreters, Sally and Debbie, did a wonderful job translating. Sally took notes and gave out copies– I was SO grateful for that!

    20130514-152526.jpg

    This morning, my brother and I were sitting in his new family room and reflecting on how everything worked out–and how everything magically unfolded beautifully. My brother was in no shape for this move, but the trip went well and we managed to unpack everything in one day so they could move in that evening.

    What a blessing!

    20130514-153439.jpg

  • You are Phenomenal and You Were Born to Win

    karen putz howard partridge tom ziglar
    Tom Ziglar, Karen Putz, and Howard Partridge

    I recently had the wonderful opportunity to attend the “Born to Win” workshop with Tom Ziglar (author of Born to Win with his father, Zig Ziglar)and Howard Partridge (Seven Secrets to a Phenomenal Life). I met both of them last fall at a Business Expo– what a dynamic duo!

    Tom was kind enough to read “Gliding Soles, Lessons from a Life on Water” which I co-authored with Keith St. Onge.   Tom wrote an endorsement:

    “Gliding Soles is a powerful book about life detailing the many steps, choices, and falls Keith St. Onge took on his way to becoming World Champion.  I highly recommend it for everyone.  Why? Because Keith’s story is really your story.  Life is tough and we all take some hard falls along the way.  The key is getting up, making a better choice, and getting back on your feet.  This book will encourage you to do just that no matter what your goals are in life.”

    Although I’m a solepreneur with my speaking and writing business, I found lots of business gems from this workshop which applies to my work with Hands & Voices and SendOutCards. Speaking of SendOutCards, this service received a mention from Howard as a valuable business tool to keep in touch with others and to spread gratitude.

    20130511-123750.jpg

    If you are considering attending a “Born to Win” workshop, I highly recommend it! Both guys truly live the Ziglar legacy: “You can have everything you want in life if you will help others get what they want.”

  • Waking Up and Ending the Day with Gratitude

    20130416-052846.jpg

    In the early morning when you wake up, let the first thoughts be ones of gratitude.

    What are you thankful for?

    At the end of the day, let the same attitude of gratefulness complete your day.

    Do this, and you’ll begin and end each day with an amazing lightness in your heart.

  • How Do You Do All That You Do?

    Lately, my bio reads like a gal off in too many directions. One week, I’m in Vancouver doing a presentation for Hands & Voices. Then I’m off in another direction doing a workshop for parents of deaf and hard of hearing kids or “Beyond the Limits” for deaf and hard of hearing students.  Yet another week, I’ll be at the World Barefoot Center (Thanks to my sponsors, ZVRS, Phonak and Tommie Copper) learning how to get up backwards behind the boat or working as a Blog Manager for the site.

    Then there’s BookHands discussions every six weeks, Mentoring with families. I’m a Manager with SendOutCards so I share that resource everywhere I go. I’m a Passion Coach and a Certified Passion Test Facilitator–I help people unwrap their top five passions. I’m an author of three books with several more on the way. When I have a free day, I substitute teach.  I’m also a mom of three teens and a wife.

    Someone recently asked me, “How the heck do you do all that?”

    The answer is pretty simple: when you do what you love to do, you can do so much more in a day. You let the insignificant stuff fall to the wayside because you’re deeply immersed in your passion.

    My friend, Sutton Parks, whom I met at Dan Miller’s Coaching with Excellence (affiliate link to some great stuff!) workshop recently posted a great quote by Kix Brooks on Facebook which pretty much sums it up perfectly:

    “I am definitely working more now,” he says, “but the word ‘work’ is the confusing part of that. People ask me all the time how do you fit all this stuff in, how do you schedule it? The secret is everything I’m doing is something that I really want to do. It’s just like if you go to the beach for the weekend, you’re gonna fit it all in. I want to go here, I want to go to my favorite place to eat, I want to ride go-karts, I want to rent wave runners, and I’m gonna sit here and put my legs up and read a book. You get all that stuff in because you want to. That’s how my life is. It’s like I’m running from place to place and I can’t wait to get to the next one because when I show up, I — for the most part — kind of know what I’m doing. [laughs] It’s all interesting and fun to me, and I just can’t wait to do it all.”

    I probably will narrow all of this down at some point, but right now, I have a lot of overlap. For example, I write when I’m on the plane, I network for SendOutCards/my books/future gigs when I travel, and I’m home the rest of the time hanging with the family.

    How can you do more of what you love in your life? First and foremost, you have to identify what it is you enjoy doing most. What brings you joy? Set your intention–what do you want to intend in your life today/tomorrow/this year? With every action, you are either moving closer to your passion or further away. Choose wisely.

     

     

     

     

  • 2013 Deaf Academic Bowl

    For two exhausting/exhilarating days, the Hinsdale South Team answered question after question during the 2013 Deaf Academic Bowl competition held at Gallaudet University in Washington, D.C.

    20130313-031057.jpg

    The team landed in 5th place among 20 teams. Both of my kids, Steven and Lauren, were on the team.

    I had a proud mommy moment when Lauren was selected for the All-Star team. It was especially poignant because she had been attending two high schools this year, one which is a 30-40 minute ride away.

    20130313-031248.jpg

    A big, huge thank you goes to the coaches, Jamie Nick and Kathy Craig, who have tirelessly practiced with the students.

    The competition is conducted in American Sign Language, and deaf and hard of hearing kids from various educational settings compete in math, social studies, art, deaf studies and science.

    20130313-031635.jpg

  • I’m Fine, Thanks. Are You Really?

     

    i'm fine thanks movie

    Get up. Go to work. Come home. Eat dinner. Watch TV. Repeat.

    Is this your life?

    Are you at the point where you’re sick and tired of being sick and tired about life? When you look back five years, do you see the same five years ahead of you?

    “I’m Fine, Thanks” explores the topics of mediocrity and complacency and features interviews with people from all over the United States and Canada. To read more about the movie:

    I’m Fine, Thanks — Karen Putz

     

  • 20,000 Days and Counting–Are You Counting Yours?

    17,354.

    That’s how many days I’ve lived so far. I never really thought about that number until I sat down last night to read 20,000 Days and Counting by Robert D. Smith. The book was from Keith St. Onge, who received it from Andy Andrews.

    I first came across Robert via his guest post on Andy Andrew’s blog and I shared my thoughts on 48days.net:

    What Did You Have for Breakfast? How About a Couple of No’s

    Robert’s post gave me a whole different approach to facing rejection and he expands on this outlook in his book.

    Yes, there’s some talk of death in this book, but it serves the purpose of waking us up to examine our lives and understand how we can leave a legacy of difference during our time here on earth. The message is clear: live with intensity.

    Robert asks in the book, “Are you getting so bogged down in the day-to-day minutiae of your life that you overlook the power of each moment?” And there’s more: “Do not wait for impending death to light the fire of action inside yourself.  Act today. Start small. There are opportunities hiding in the ‘day-to-day.’”  We definitely have to be mindful of the power of each moment because that is all we really have– the here and now. This reminds me of a line in one of John Denver’s songs: “The moment at hand is the only thing we really own.”

    Last night, before I sat down with the book, I was experiencing a high level of crankiness about small things. I was lamenting about my weight gain, grumbling about the frustration of learning how to barefoot backwards and just generally in a very rotten mood. An hour and half later, I closed the book and reflected on several key points. The first thing was to switch to an attitude of gratitude– after all, here I was down in Florida getting to barefoot water ski with some great people. I took each of the negatives and switched them around to positives. Life is too short to give in to the grumbling.

    Tomorrow is day 17,355. It’s gonna be good.